Welcome

My River Guides is a free tool that presents an easy way to reach out for support in your own personal network. It is based on solution focused principles.

Have you ever experienced life being so overwhelming that you are barely able to reach out for help? You’re doing all you can to not drown. No hands left to reach out, no breath left to call out to anyone.

Or you’ve already grown too strong. You don’t need to reach out for support because you will deal with anything yourself. It was just a matter of training. Life’s hard. But at times, it can be rather isolating and exhausting.

Wouldn’t it be great to have people alongside of you? People that know about you, that see you and are willing to support you when needed? When the signs show?

If this is recognizable for you and you’re eager to get more grip on your (current) situation, the tool offered here might be for you!

The River of Life

Life is like a river. Don’t you agree? Google it if you like. You will soon find out it is quite an amazing metaphor used by many singers, writers, coaches, politicians, philosophers. People of all cultures and all times. A universal way of looking at life. Trying to make sense of what was, is and will come.

But what’s the use of this for me and you now? Today, in our everyday lives.
If it’s such a true metaphor, then it must be handy too?!
That’s exactly what we experienced and that’s why we offer this tool, free, for anyone.

Your Support Network

We are all the same. We all need each other. Yet, we are all different and we are all afraid to get hurt sometimes. Especially when we are vulnerable. When things are not going great.

You are connected to many people. Some closer to you than others. The closer a person is to you, the more (s)he is likely and able to support you. But, the closer a person is to you, the more it hurts when a conflict or injury happens. It might even hurt when (s)he is not able to support you in the way you really need. And it’s not always obvious when and what support you need. How could it be? Sometimes you yourself don’t even know, right!

We want to stimulate you to become a more conscious ‘independent depender’. To be strong, proud and pro active, and at the same time, to know when (and how and who) to ask for support. From our perspective, this is one of the main challenges in life.

The Tool

So, we are convinced there’s people alongside you already. Maybe they are very helpful to you at all times. And that might even be mutual. In that case, you are very lucky indeed!
In general though, we are very willing to be there for each other, but not always able.

At times you need a good conversation. Sometimes that good conversation doesn’t happen. Sometimes the ‘good’ conversation that does happen, isn’t very helpful to you.
My River Guides is a tool that is meant to support you in making that good conversation happen..ánd making it really helpful.

The tool is a 12-page .pdf digital document send to you through email. It contains, among other pages: an introduction, how to use, companions page, river and vessel characteristics and many, many tips.

Get in touch to see if this works for you too!

Contact

Get in touch to receive the free tool today!
Send an email to jesse@myriverguides.com or fill in the form below.
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